http://www.theonequestion.com/test.html
My answers to the questions raised in the website are below:-
1. What are you naturally curious about?
- History
 - Wisdom from the past generations
 - Inspiring lives of ordinary people
 - Politics
 - Leadership
 - Economics and finance
 - Existential struggles of life
 - Ethics
 - Self-help
 - Human philosophy and behaviour
 
2. What would you change about the world?
- Self-centered leadership
 - Ungrateful people
 - Injustice
 - Undue hurts and disappointment caused to other people
 - Indifference of people
 - Disregard for other people
 - Unclear goals
 - Religion which disregards emotional well-being of people
 - Suffering
 - Cheating and dishonesty
 
3. What would you love to do or accomplish before you die?
- Have a mentor who's experienced to share his life wisdom
 - Go on a mission trip
 - Be self-sufficient
 - Find an institution of integrity and progress, and a compelling cause to commit to
 - Pour out my life for a committed mentee
 - Share and impart whatever I know and have
 - Defy norms of society or groups who are self-centered
 - Help other people who are truly and humbly accept that they are in need
 
4. What would you do if you could not fail?
- Get my own team and start my own church
 - Research and prepare teachings
 - Train and help organisation/ people to improve
 - Write and publish my reflection
 - Build a team of like-minded people
 
5. What would you do if you would not be limited by money?
- Help to set up non-profit organisation to build and train people to be equipped for every good work
 - Travel to different parts of the world for humanitarian aid
 
6. What would you like to hear at your funeral?
- Family members - Loving, committed, caring, and enabling
 - Friends - Convicted, passionate, devoted, steadfast, flexible, life-long learner
 - Colleague - Responsible, value-adding
 - Others - Enriching with new/ different perspectives, champion of underdogs, refreshing, inspiring and authentic
 
7. What are the things you currently enjoy doing?
- Going on courses
 - Reading and learning something new
 - Reflection and creating new perspectives
 - Hanging out with friends, playing LAN gaming
 - Doing something with a clear goal
 - Achieving something which I know I'm good at
 - Singing
 - Counselling people and at the end they felt that they were mininstered
 - Playing soccer and winning
 - Relaxing with my girlfriend, baring my innermost thoughts and feelings
 - One-on-one setting with people who are most honest and vulnerable
 
8. What were the activities or tasks you were doing when you felt most empowered?
- Running my own caregroup
 - Sharing my thoughts and reflection
 - Initiating and completion of my project
 - Doing something which I know will be beneficial to a group or institution which I am committed to
 - Doing tasks with a group of committed and like-minded people
 
9. What would you most like to be acknowledged for so far in your life?
- Pioneering and setting up a admin support group in Uni ministry
 - Helping to develop and raise CLs
 - Organising a conference of 500 pax
 - Develop syllabus for basic guitar lesson
 
10. If you have only one wish, what would it be?
- To have a team of like-minded, passionate and committed people to fulfill a cause
 
11. Whose life do you want to be living?
- Ravi Zechariah for his grasp of life and its issues, and his inspiring and thought-provoking reflections
 - Lee Kuan Yew for his insights, discipline and strong will
 - Jesus Christ for his humanity and humility
 
12. What ideas are you most inspired by?
- Selfless, devoted, competent and empowering leadership
 - Life-long learning and education for all
 - Ethical and civil-minded society
 
13.With whom would you like to surround yourself?
- People who are well-read
 - People who are insightful and gives refreshing perspectives
 - People who inspires and motivates me to action
 - People who are loving and caring towards me
 - People who want to develop others
 
14. Do you take responsibility for what is happening to you? (Do note that I did this questionaire last year when I hasn't really recovered yet from past hurts(
No, I don't believe it. I gave myself to the people whom I cared for and in exchange, I got betrayal, misunderstanding, neglect and criticism. Right now, I really can't see how things will come to change or how I am going to step out from the mess. But I am determined to achieve my life purpose no matter what it takes. My life won't be determined by others but myself only.

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